February 14, 2018
Valentine’s Day – an opportunity to express your love for that special person in your life (or maybe the one you’d like to become that special person in your life) or a shamelessly cynical exercise in consumer exploitation? Well, love it or hate it, every February sees shops stacked high with cards covered in red hearts, boxes of chocolates, bouquets of red roses (12 of course!) and cute teddy bears sporting t-shirts with lovey-dovey messages.
Of course, Valentine’s Day isn’t just an idea conjured up by a clever marketing team. The day is named after Saint Valentine. No one knows absolutely who Valentine was; there are a number of stories associated with martyred saints named Valentine or Valentinus, but the most popular story dates back to the third century. According to the history books, a priest from Rome was discovered to be secretly marrying Christian couples. This was in direct opposition to a decree outlawing marriage issued by Emperor Claudius II, who believed that single men made better soldiers than those encumbered by wives and children. Valentine was arrested and Claudius ordered his execution. Needless to say, the details of Valentine’s death are suitably gory and the date of his execution was 14 February.
Legend has it that, whilst in prison, Valentine fell in love with his jailor’s daughter and that he sent her a letter signed ‘from your Valentine’. Of course, no one knows whether there is any truth in that, but fast forward to the year 496 and Pope Gelasius I established the feast of St Valentine in the priest’s memory. Ever since then, St Valentine has featured throughout the centuries as a romantic figure. During the Middle Ages, it was believed that 14 February was the beginning of the mating season for birds, a belief that added a further layer to the notion of that particular day being romantic.
Valentine greetings became popular long before Clintons Cards appeared on the high street. One might think of the Victorian era, given that many Christmas traditions appeared during that time. However, the oldest known valentine message dates back to 1415, when the Duke of Orleans, captured during the Battle of Agincourt and imprisoned in the Tower of London, wrote a poem to his wife – who would have known! The tradition of sending tokens of love on Valentine’s Day really took off in the 17th century, and in 1841, a year after the invention of the postage stamp, 400,000 Valentine’s cards were sent.
So where does Cupid fit in?
Well, that cute and cuddly winged cherub is actually the god of desire, attraction and erotic love, thought to be the child of Venus, goddess of love, and Mars, God of war. He carries a bow and arrow and people who fall in love are often described as being struck by Cupid’s arrow.
As for chocolates as a suitable gift, we can probably blame Cadbury who introduced a heart-shaped box of chocolates in 1868. And giving roses was definitely popularized by the Victorians – red, obviously, because red represents passion and true love, as well as enjoying an association with the goddess Venus.
Can’t help feeling romantic now?
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